Basically one has the ability to analysis and provide solution
to solve a problem. But usually when he'she is in it, it tend to be
overwhlem by emotions and clouded and lost their direction and
rations.
Below is a few case in which i was wondering.
Case 1:
How would u react if u court and gal and u fail, and worst of all u
goto meet her everyweek?
Personally i choose to avoid her, gifing myself time to cool down
but on the other hand. Am i escaping?
Case 2:
Over the limit of friends?
Althought everything is over, answers are reveal and time to face
the reality, would u hack care them? treat as nothing had happen?
or still care for them?
Mi try to tell myself tat it is nothing more to do with mi and it
is wiser to keep a distance. (need a break) but sometimes when i
see tat she is not feeling well, will tend to care a bit to the
extend of buying them some herbal tea or food when they are not
feeling well or hungry.
I know tat i am gifing on my own willingness, but on the other
hand.
from the way they react, feel so extra and cheap.
the more i do, the more stupid i felt.
So wat did i do wrong? i just cant find a perfect solution. If i
ignore her, mi "narrow minded". If i just treat them better, they
think i am back for more, perhaps.
It is so hard to work it out a friendship when u tried to over step
it and fail.
Suggestion from both genders. Free to say wat u feel.Hopefully can
get more feedbacks. Tx